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teajay wrote:nom nom nom nom nom
Yes.
Zweq wrote:wtf nom that heppens in mowies only. double bug bounce and finish 2.05 lab pro is more expected
Yes. :D
Pawq wrote:and more desirable
Why? It wouldn't even be accepted to be a legit WR. Well you would still get lots of respect from it though.
anpdad wrote:pics or it didn't happen
Maybe some day. =)
roope wrote:sick nom, unexpected
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Still got mine. Had a break of about 6 months, before we made it official again, so now it's 3 months minus 1 day (I remember dates quite easy ;)). But today's also the very day that I first tried to hook up with her 2 years ago. Great night, haha!
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nick-o-matic wrote:*: never go anywhere but school and supermarket (especially not to any kind of parties) and also in school sosialize as little as possible and after all this careful preparation expect a beautiful girl to hand you a note with her phone number and a request to go out in the school canteen
Hopefully that's me next week. 8) [hopes.]

edit: Except that actually at school I am quite astonishingly socializing compared to other semesters.
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She is so super. She already has tried Elma and minigolf and when I sent her a text message of an inequality equation which yields solution "I<3U" she not only was able to solve it but she even liked it!
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That shit's cray 8D
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dame incredible nom! :)
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Very happy for nom. Good luck. :)
then again i don't know anything
maybe easier not to think abouut alöl things thought than not things thought ... or something..=?
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That is extraordinary nom, i wish you both best of luck, don't you dare lose each other now :beer:
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It's a trap! She's after your virginity!
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Thank you very much for your comments everyone, they gave me good mood!
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It's a trap! She's after your recs!
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Zweq wrote:It's a trap! She's after your recs!
If that was the case, I don't know whether I should be disappointed or flattered. xd
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teajay wrote:It's a trap! She's after your virginity!
She's after your ass virginity!
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So, what's happening nom? Don't keep us waiting, we need to stay informed!
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ye, do live webcam of your room, so that we can check with you every once in a while :D
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I'm not 100% sure if you were sarcastic teajay, but I assume you were serious as you are a friendly guy.

Anyway it's going really well. We have dated less than a month but I already know I will most likely spend my life with her. Right now she is away to her parents but she will come back tomorrow night. I by the way might introduce her to adi next week as I should start introducing her to my friends.
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We have dated less than a month but I already know I will most likely spend my life with her.
That just sounds seriously clingy. Leave an escape route. :s
then again i don't know anything
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her masterplan is working as intended. women exist to destroy elma community :(
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Haha, nom, I was being both sarcastic and a friendly guy. I hope these two coexist in your world aswell :D

Nice to hear you are going steady and all. I wish you all the best. The feeling of spending your life together rocks. The feeling will change, no matter what the outcome will be, but having a strong romantic basis is something a relationship needs in my opinion. And you get good memories from that. I like to think back to those romantic periods. And eventhough it's so different now, I am so happy to be with my beloved still/again.
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Zweq wrote:her masterplan is working as intended. women exist to destroy elma community :(

Dunno if they EXIST to destroy it, but that's what they do pretty effectively :roll:
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Xarthok wrote:i'm considering proposing soon o,o wander if there are any drawbacks to it nowadays?
so i guess she said no?
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Lots of beer, because yey :) or because you want to forget? :(
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oh wow Xarthok, i had an impression that you had quite long and strong relationship, impsy to break up :o
p.s. weird emoticon with beer, same question as tj here.
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I was asking that because I know ballz can be very sarcastic. I suspect he is truly not happy with this, but perhaps and hopefully he is just very happy due to a realization that he is actually much better off. I have good friends who recently broke up out of the blue and they both are quite happy with that, apart of the usual emotions that come along with breaking up after having been living together in the same small home for a longer stretch of time.
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Lukazz: she said yes.
teajay: beer because yay - we were making each other miserable in different ways and just came to the conclusion that we are not going to change. I think it's for the best
anp: that's the impression most people try to send out when they are in a relationship, regardless of how happy they really are
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Very wise decision, I congratulate you! I was having hard times about 9 months ago aswell, and nobody saw the breakup coming. Now back together again, everything is different, but still the same. We discuss a lot more and we know that we both think the other's a bit strange. But we're more happy. And we aren't going to propose eachother yet, heha. It's impossible to predict the future, but I'm comfortable with the present, and that's what matters. Not that we do not discuss futures, but zomg let's enjoy the day that is. Or something. So yeah, sometimes troubles, but always quick to gather solutions aswell. The perfect relationship is the one that isn't perfect at first sight.
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Xarthok wrote:lost one
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Has been 6 months now, how are you going? Actually was thinking about this today because my first serious girlfriend got engaged a few weeks ago and i am fearful she'll get into a situation that she doesn't really think through.

Do you still talk and stuff? Have new gf?
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We got back again, still going.
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No real reason to post here but why not

Got one for 3 years now, engaged blablabla, otherwise pretty shady standard old-retired-folks-robot relationship - and now she is away visiting her friends for the first time ever = means Im home alone for a month. It feels reeeeally great to focus on only myself. Barely orka call her to see whats up :s
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6 months. Bought her roses. xd
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3 years together few weeks back. I took her to excelent steak restaurant that day. I have enjoyed it more than her did :) She gave me voucher for head massage and another one for chocolate massage few DAYS back. Pretty big delay, if you ask me. But I was pleased anyway.

edit: btw we are not engaged (nor we think about it atm), we do not live together (and we probably won't live together in near future) and we most certainly do NOT want to have kids atm (I am 24 (it gets harder to remember how old one is Image)).
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Bludek wrote:we do not live together (and we probably won't live together in near future)...
If you don't mind my asking, why not? Practical reasons, or you're still not sure about yourselves?
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Practical reasons - it is quite expensive to live on our own, coz we both study university and we have only temporary jobs. But after that living together is sure thing.
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Yaaaay girlfriends... I'm 18, so naturally my love life is all fucked up. Broke up with my ex last summer, we'd been together for almost a year. It sucked, but I got so sick of her. Whenever we were alone together she would do one of two things: either cry because she didn't think she deserved me, or cry because she felt outshadowed by her twin brother. And she would demand I make her things for christmas and birthdays. Make things? With my hands? I couldn't make a wooden stick if I tried to...

Now I have a monumental crush on another girl in my class (another class than the ex). The sad thing is that just about every guy who ever gets near her fall for her, it's freaking impossible not to. She's one of the sweetest (and cutest) people I've ever met. A gazillion guys have admitted to her they liked her, and she's turned them ALL down.

I even wrote a fucking song about her, but never properly asked her out. Which is just really sad *facepalm*.

I should mention that I've written lots of songs about all kinds of shit, I guess I was just feeling particularily love sick one day when I was klimpering at the piano.

Also, I've never said a word of this to anyone before.
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Interhybritizer wrote:Also, I've never said a word of this to anyone before.
this is the power of teh internet.

being 18 (as me) and having no gf is norm thing imo. And from my experience, the everybody-falls-in-love-with-her girls are generally not "high quality stuff".
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we should form a club guys!
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Tigro wrote:the everybody-falls-in-love-with-her girls are generally not "high quality stuff".
true, but how to resist? :D
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Tigro wrote:everybody-falls-in-love-with-her girls are generally not "high quality stuff".
Well that's what so fucked up about her; she's NOT some lofty bitch who commands people around and talks shit behind people's backs. She's really nice to everybody. Smiles and laughs a lot, but not to the point where it's annoying. Also she fucking loves chocolate with a passion, which is just great. I think the proper english expression for such a person is "lovely".

(No she's not fat, which is amazing considering how much chocolate she eats...)

I'd be just fine having her as a friend (and yeah we are friends), if it wasn't for my huge-ass crush on her. In fact, most of my close friends (at least from school) are girls, because all the guys in my school are fucking dickheads.
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Mine? It's Mitch Hedberg =P
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Interhybritizer wrote:Mine? It's Mitch Hedberg =P
Perhaps think of it this way.

Why does love have to involve romance?

If little miss adorable so happens to be your friend, it's quite easy to enjoy her company and be made happy by what she does and says. You don't have to sex with someone to enjoy their company.

If she is so lovely, just go out of your way to be lovely to her as well. (Not over the top like "Hi i thought you were pretty so i bought you a porsche.) - ask her how her day has been, show genuine interest in what she responds with. If you so happen to come to class one day and she's not as perky, bring her some chocolate the next day to cheer her up.

Keep in mind: If said girl is as lovely as you say she is, and people fall for her all the time, she's probably pretty used to having friends that all of a sudden admit they like her and make her feel awkward. Girls like that are usually in desperate need of a good friendship and both you and her will get a lot out of it.

If you can do these kind of things and be content with improving her day, you obviously like her. If you can't do these sorts of things because you are crushing too hard and you struggle being at ease around her - How are you coming across to her?

Girls that are kind deserve kindness back to them. You never know, it might come back around and you end up with a really wonderful girlfriend down the track.
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Well that was the most beta thing I've read all week.
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I thought Haru's post was great. Also it makes most sense to build love on friendship instead of rushing into love.
then again i don't know anything
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