I used to do this back in high school with my friends. For some reason I sometimes felt kinda bad\guilty about fapping so I tried to combat it. Nowadays I can't really understand what I was thinking. Currently I see it as a very pleasant activity so I see no reason to abstain from it. Maybe if I had an incredibly tight schedule I would try it.
Also sometimes I try to combine it with learning, like I've read a few hentai mangas in Japanese. Kinda funny to alt+tab to a dictionary while fapping but it's still something worth trying if you're learning another language.
I think I'm now on nofap without any effort. Just not feeling it. Sometimes I try fapping simply out of habit but I don't get excited. Is it a winter thing or something?
Purity: freedom from immorality, especially of a sexual nature
Given the definition of purity, I see you didn't choose nofap for any biological advantage, i.g. more sex drive, theories of heightened testosterone, or any other beliefs out there.
So morality then. Morality is a heavily debated subject. How did nofap rid you of sexual immorality? Was the type of porn immoral? Is all porn immoral? Is masturbation itself immoral to you?
Don't care about nofap but I think I'll go for noporn. Watching porn just doesn't feel right. If I was a girl I'm pretty sure I wouldn't want my male friends to fap to scenes of female abuse all the time.
kuchitsu wrote: ↑1 Jul 2019, 13:42If I was a girl I'm pretty sure I wouldn't want my male friends to fap to scenes of female abuse all the time.
Not all porn is about female abuse :) I never found that arousing, and some of it really disgusts me. But, thankfully, there's a lot of porn that's respectful to women.
You can watch just solo masturbation or softcore, stuff like that, if you feel like regular porn is female abuse.
Anyways, regular porn is nowhere close to abuse, imo. I am not saying all the chicks are enjoying it all the time, but they get some money of it and they do it of their own free will. Also some girls like it quite rough. Most of them actually, at least every now and then, afaik. So there's that, if that helps.
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21:03:48 <umiz> i like 99% of bludek levels
Bludek wrote: ↑1 Jul 2019, 16:15
Also some girls like it quite rough. Most of them actually, at least every now and then, afaik. So there's that, if that helps.
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no pun intended
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Bludek wrote: ↑1 Jul 2019, 16:15but they get some money of it and they do it of their own free will. Also some girls like it quite rough. Most of them actually, at least every now and then, afaik. So there's that, if that helps.
Doing something of one's own free will and for money doesn't necessarily mean that it's not abusive. Naivety or desperation may also be abused, and the person along with them.
But I stand by what I said, not all porn is abusive.
pawq wrote: ↑1 Jul 2019, 19:33
Doing something of one's own free will and for money doesn't necessarily mean that it's not abusive. Naivety or desperation may also be abused, and the person along with them.
well, that's true.
I was just giving kuchi some examples when porn is not abusive, so he would feel better about it
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21:03:48 <umiz> i like 99% of bludek levels
It's really patronizing to deny an adult's decision to make porn by calling it abuse. There are also plenty of studios run by women. What are they, internalized oppression?
then again i don't know anything maybe easier not to think abouut alöl things thought than not things thought ... or something..=?
Well, I think nobody's denying them that. But I think it's fair enough to frown upon propagating such things, since they are normally abusive in the society. Whether propagating a cerain type of behaviour in porn reinforces or popularises that behaviour among people is a good question tho. But I guess this is an endless pit, some porn is so deeply fucked up that it would be pretty much impsy to consider it through normal societal gaks, need a phd for that or sth.
Well, I was generalizing. And instead of abuse it would be more appropriate to say, umm... taking advantage of people who happened to be in an unfortunate life situation at some point and therefore had to resort to doing porn? I mean, perhaps I'm just old-fashioned or close-minded, but it's so hard for me to believe that someone in the industry actually feels like they are living a fulfilling life where they can express and explore themselves, experience many interesting things and be overall satisfied with what they are doing unless they have a quite specific disorder. I keep thinking that something bad happened to them and they needed money, or they were lured into it when they were young and stupid and now regret it but it's too late, or they were depressed and confused and didn't know what to do with life. So I feel bad looking at them for my pleasure. But maybe in reality what they are doing is not that different from pair skating, for example, where men and women are also doing things with their bodies in order to please the audience, and I'm just biased here because sex is still a taboo-ish thing while skating is considered classy. I don't know, it's confusing to think about. The argument about amateur videos is also good, I haven't considered those but I guess people who make them for free must obviously enjoy both the process and the fact that others can watch.